We have JUST hit the one year mark in our marriage. How did we do it? Some say a marriage is giving and taking, a 50/50 concept. Surely, there are those who come with there clever, yet overused rebuttal and say no... it's 100/100. I learned something this year that has changed my mind, my perspective and marriage for the better. As a wife, I will focus on giving 100% and getting 0. That way... everything is a bonus. Everything is a blessing. Of course, my husband came through this year with more than 0%. Marriage has exceeded my expectations. I expected it to be harder, but loving him seems easy. Our marriage is rooted in Christ and what He has done for us, so any hardship, challenge or trial is nothing. Jesus is EVERYTHING, but Chance is something else. I love my husband.